Life of a small boar

Why are human so quick to judge?
Do we get satisfaction or a sense of righteous at listing others' wrong?
Do we feel superior by labeling others a level lower to us?

How often though, have we wailed
That no one seems to understand us?
That people mistreat us?
That people spread nasty gossips unfair to us?
That some friends turned backstabber?
That we felt so alone?
Well, have we ever thought that the same girl/boy we're bitching about might be going through the same thing?
I wonder

She's right.
We know only her name, and perhaps a little of what we see with our eyes. How much more sides to her life is there that we know not of? What gives us the right to tell her she's wrong?

She's right.
We are not her. We'll never know what she went through and why she made this decision. We can encourage or advise, but who are we to decide for her? Who are we to say what she should and should not do? She has her reasons, and if she choose not to share, what right do we have to squeeze it out of her?

He's right.
Just because he's a generally nice person does not make him a saint! Emotion is a part of human being, and just because he lost his temper ONCE, does not make him a bad tempered person with no sportsmanship.

He's right.
Just because he's young and successful at young age, does not mean he's from a well off family, fed off from gold spoon since day one on Earth. Btw, what if he is? Why the bother? Why are human so bitter about others' success, determine to find loophole that he did not make the money himself? If one's so eager to comment, then please search thoroughly on his childhood before doing so.

She's right.
Kind and generous does not equals to a doormate, and not helping people on every request presented to her does not mean she's not kind.

And there are these about her, her, him, them, her, him and many more.
We do not know what happened in their lives. Do not add salt to their wound. If we have no good things to say, and be content with our mouths shut!

Especially on relationships, be it friends or couples. If we are not a party involved, then we will NEVER know for sure what exactly happen. I wouldn't go so far as to say there's o right and wrong. I believe there IS right and wrong in a relationship, but we shall never know for sure, who's right and who's wrong. If our friend is involved, it's natural to be one sided, however, be a comfort, but not a a decision maker. It's not our decision to make.

I'm definitely no better than anyone else. When juicy gossip turns my way, hard to resist isn't it? ;P This post serves as a reminder to me and anyone else who reads, I guess =)